chardi kala – UNITED SIKHS Blog http://www.unitedsikhs.org/blog Recognize The Human Race As One Fri, 01 Sep 2017 23:45:10 +0000 en-US hourly 1 CHARDI KALA: UNITED SIKHS TEAM DISPATCHES FROM WISCONSIN http://www.unitedsikhs.org/blog/2012/08/chardi-kala-united-sikhs-team-dispatches-from-wisconsin/ Wed, 22 Aug 2012 18:00:31 +0000 http://www.unitedsikhs.org/blog/?p=1529  “INCREDIBLE RESILIENCE”

As I sat at the Milwaukee Airport on August 19th, it felt like I was leaving my home. The Sikh community that I had met only a few days back had welcomed me into their hearts and homes, turning this complete stranger into a family member. It has taken me three days to be able to finally pen down my experiences. Not because I was unwilling to write; it was because the immensity of the emotions and personal loss made the act of writing so trivial.

What I will describe in these series of blogs will be stories of my personal journey with the members of the families that lost their loved ones and the incredible support from the Wisconsin Sikh community surrounding them. I hope that as you read these passages, you will begin to understand the deep personal pain felt by everyone following the senseless killing in Wisconsin. I also hope that these blogs will give you an insight into the tremendous resiliency, forgiveness and humility present within the Sikh community.

“Mother
I pray that you may have true peace and that God’s graces never cease; I pray your heart’s contentment too, may fill the years ahead of you.”

This heart wrenching message, from the sons to their mother, brought tears to my eyes as I read it. The sons, 20-year old Kamaljit Singh Saini and 18-year old Harpreet Singh Saini have placed this message on a plaque, placed on a memorial, at the site where their mother was killed. Paramjit Kaur Saini was the only woman killed in the senseless shooting on August 5th, at the Sikh Gurdwara in Oak Creek, Wisconsin.

Everyone describes Paramjit Kaur as a sweet, devout woman who came to the Gurdwara everyday to pray and help in the preparation of the Langar. She was sitting and praying in the Gurdwara the fatal day of the shooting. The site where she was shot now has a memorial with a large vase of flowers that get replaced diligently by the sons. “We both miss our mom a lot, it is strange not having her home when I come back from work” said Kamaljit Singh who works in addition to being a student at the local University. Even at this young of an age, I could see that he was mature beyond his years. As we talked, I learned how he had been supporting the family along with his mother and now has made Harpreet’s recovery his priority. Harpreet will be joining his older brother at the University in a few weeks and the two plan to live together.

As a mother of three, my heart cried as I began to understand the extent of all that has been lost. Sitting at the place where a mother was snatched from her sons, I prayed to Waheguru, to continue to bless these incredible boys with resilience and courage, as they embark on this new journey together.

-Dr. Seema Kaur, Regional Director, UNITED SIKHS

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